Reason of failures

1. Mental conditioning
2. Mind Blockage
3. Rigidity
Mental Conditioning- people whose mind is conditioned from the very beginning of life ,let things happen to them. They always accepts life as it comes as they loose hopes & stops trying to things to be happen.. They don’t feel themselves capable of making things happen. So they suffer a lot in life & accepts every sufferings as a destiny.

Mind Blockage-most of us don’t use the mind of their own. They always believe n others word as it’s very easy to think what others think & feel quite safe to do what others say. They never use their mind & brain. They only know to follow others & always travel the tasted path. They want to walk on the existing footprints to avoid risks involved in their movement.

Rigidity-It is most important to get success in life. The successful man take changes as a choice & accepts firmly. To the person who fails, the change is a compromise & he accepts as there is no other alternative. But the truth is choice brings alternatives, opportunities & thus brings happiness through success whether compromise is a compulsion, helplessness & thus brings dissatisfaction through failures.

Importance of Hobbies

In today’s world we are passing through a very hectic schedule & haven’t always enough time to rest & slow down. Which is very much important for our body as well as brain for healthy going & well balanced life. I think having a hobby is one of the best way for healthy going & without it our life is like a machine by doing the repetitive work. Hobby is something you do on your leisure time you want to & enjoy doing. Thus you can put your brain under relaxation & get mental satisfaction. It has wide range of variety from painting to gardening, from fishing to bird watching, from stamp collecting to listening music. There are lot more things like reading books, chatting, dancing, singing, watching movies, traveling etc. So a hobby can be anything you love to do. It helps you to reflect your daily work. One can have number of hobbies at a time. Hobbies will keep you aside from getting bored, keep you fit if your hobby is a physical one with fun & enjoyment. So it is suggested that if you don't already have one then think to get it and if you do then enjoy & have some fun doing it.

Few common Hobbies which can have multiple aspects-
1. Relating/connecting people- it’s a good thing to enjoy for those who love to chat and it helps to make a relationship for other activities like to share knowledge, gather information , exchange views etc. Relating especially with people you care about is a very serious activity
2.Coin& stamp Collection- It’s a good hobby which helps to cultivate historical heritage, gather knowledge about history, culture besides enjoyment.
3.Cooking- It’s a very good hobby, get to know food habits of different country, learn & teach various recipes & helps to build a innovative mind.
4.Traveling/Mountaineering - it’s a good hobby for peopleto discover the treasure of nature & enjoy the heavens beauty.
5. Gardening -has proven itself throughout the centuries to be one of the most useful hobbies.
6. Photography- it’s a very good for nature lover to enjoy nature, helps to build a art of creation by innovative power.

Uniqueness is a reflection of personal style

Does your personal style& fashion truly reflect your personality? Are you confident about your looks? Do you think you are happy with your skin type, colour? Is your hairstyle matching with your face? Are you sure you never compare with others by looks & get-up you are presently in? According to me, as a woman all the answers will be negative in most of cases. Many of them do not own their look and always trying to copy others. As a result they seems as a copy cat. This is a detrimental situation in lifestyle.I feel to maintain uniqueness, woman should bear own style, action & fashion according to lifestyle, environment, budget & in which feel comfortable.
Hers few tips ---

1: Find your body type and choose the style which looks good on you.

2: Choose outfits which complement your profile and lifestyle: If you feel comfortable with trendy dress then go for it rather than accepting modern one

3: Your hairstyle is according to your body type & face.

4: Give time for skin nourishment & for that you need to take proper diet& plenty of water. Healthy glowing skin make your presence bright & charming .

5: Try to maintain your health with proper care & exercise.

6. Try to keep your mind fresh & stress free by doing meditation or yoga .It not
only for help to develop your personality but add flavour to you life

7. Adapt a positive style of talking as it has great impact.

8. Be humorous & don’t adapt aggressive attitude.
9. Handle any adverse situation with cool brain & take right decision

Life is like a flower

Life is like a flower.
Born in a tiny seed, planted deep within the earth. Like flower, life has fragrance, color & beauty. The charm of life as a whole reflects the care behind. Fragrance, color & beauty gives the true sense of life, missing any one of these three makes the life meaning-less. So to give the meaning of life one should feel positively the presence of these three all together . Fragrance means positive attitude, healthy thoughts & politeness towards life. In a nutshell, it’s a magical touch of mental sense. Its an attitude to accept life in the form it comes & love the charm. It’s the feeling of love, presence of livelihood and sense of living.
Color means enjoyment of life in all aspects, physically, mentally as well as spiritually. Colour of life means meaning of living in true perspective with all the happiness and beauty ensembled around you.
Beauty is the essential part to make the life meaningful. It’s come through the inner & outer well-being of body, in which the individual realizes own abilities, capable to cope with the normal stresses of life, can work productively and fruitfully, and is able to make a contribution towards life.Mental beauty means exercise of mind basically through meditation, dhyana, yoga .It brings mental relaxation and spiritual realization that keeps from odds & helps to gain positive energy. It gives extra power to life. Physical fitness is the other part of beauty. It helps to maintain the balance of body. So life needs the presence of all three (fragrance colour & beauty) to give a meaning of presence in earth.